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Anka Kampka / Kerstin orbs: What Nelson Mandela and resilience have in common? The ability to leave the victim

extract from the inaugural Nelson Mandela

.. Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate .... Our deepest fear is, beyond measure to be powerful. It is our light, not our darkness that frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? ...... You are a child of God. Up playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened mind to make himself so small that others around you do not feel comfortable ...... If we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to others to do the same.

Anka Kampka

The largest and most crucial step, the Nelson Mandela was, was that he has not the black population made "big", but the whites their Fear has taken. With that thought he was and is today even many statesmen in his wise insight far ahead.

Also he may have seen one or the other as victim. However, he has never "give" that role. His fighting spirit and perseverance have helped him and his compatriots here, the Apartheid regime to quit.

Well, it is true that we often "slow" and even been the victim gain a lot of positives. We do not want to hear, but we often play this role only to you. Invisible shackles us seem to magically be detailed in this role.

These include things like: "It's just so", "to me that like so no one hears," "my opinion does not matter," "I'm not good enough." We make our statements responsible for adverse circumstances: In the job we are power games or bullying delivered. In the Family, we put our own needs "back in" and have our own future prospects lost from view. Powerlessness is spreading rapidly, we are drowning in self pity, quarrel with our destiny and make ourselves small.

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other hand, we like to take the tempting offers to our inner pig dog that has an excuse for everything. Is not that nice and comfortable? "I can not help it!", "What I can do that?". To the fate is revealed, neither decisions nor real take responsibility to have to own at least not for our lives. Thus, we are victims ourselves, we hide behind our own excuses. At the same time we are ashamed of our "dark side" of emotions such as frustration, anger, cowardice, and much more.

But how will people see around us, our light in us when we do not even want to see in us? Often we just need a little confidence and a willingness to find our own strength, so that we can understand ourselves as "brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous."

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